Matters Of The Heart - Relationship With a.k.a Ralph (Fresh R)

It's Matters Of The Heart on the LateNightSail with Yours' Truly Ralph a.k.a (Fresh R)

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Tonight, as always the show is about you. So read the issue below and be a part of the conversation by sharing your thoughts/ advice.

My name is Grace and I am very confused right now I dont know what to do. I just graduated from the University and I'm not in a rush to get married at all yes I'm 23 but marriage isn't something you can rush in and out of. So I'm ready to take my time but my reason for sending my story is that I've been dating a guy for two years plus.

Currently, he's serving at the moment. My mum knows about the both of us. As a mother she prayed about the both of us in case we end up together and I've been getting disheartening response. She told me we will be cool but later we'll be having problems majorly from his family members. I wasn't convinced enough she went to another pastor but he says another thing. This time there will be difficulty in the aspect of child birth, I still wasn't convinced then went to a pastor on my own that one even said we're not compatible at all.

I tried breaking up because I don't want to get my self involved in what will give problems in future; my mum is an example already, but it was difficult then he asked me what happened I told him if we end up together we might not have children I can't tell him about the fact that his family members might be the major cause of the problem but he was like there's nothing God cannot change.

I'm too entangled to him there's nothing that goes on in my life that he doesnt know about. He has his good sides also I know nobody is perfect, I dont know if I should break up now before someone will start counting 3yrs or 4yrs or should I risk it after all. The alarm I'm hearing now before it turns to "had I known"

I'm scared I don't want end up like my mum at same time I don't want to leave him. And anytime I start acting anyhow so he'll break up that's when he'll be extra ordinarily nice. Should I just end it now or risk it?

Please serious advice needed.

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